our family

May you have a Merry Christmas
and peace filled New Year!

We are the Cidade-Harkleroads:
my wife Melissa Cidade,
our daughter Margaret Rose,
our new son Joseph Emanuel
and me,
Toby Harkleroad!

 

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Family VIDEOS UPDATED 12/25

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Melissa and I were married on August 2, 2003 near Melissa’s hometown in western Pennsylvania.

View our wedding photos: Pre-Wedding, Ceremony, Reception (1), Reception (2)
Wedding Ceremony: Booklet, Full Text

We are now homeowners in Bowie, Maryland!

our home

Melissa and I graduated from Shippensburg University of Pennsylvania, near my hometown of Harrisburg, PA, in May 2003. I graduated with a B.S.Ed. in History and Comprehensive Social Studies Education and a minor in Philosophy. Melissa graduated with B.A. in Sociology and a minor in Women’s Studies.

Melissa graduated with her Master of Arts in Sociology from The Catholic University of America in May 2005. She is currently research associate for CARA (The Center for Applied Research in the Apostolate) at Georgetown University. She was formerly research associate at the Association of Catholic Colleges and Universities and formerly a survey specialist at Mathematica Policy Research in Washington, DC. Melissa has also worked as a researcher with Dr. Dean Hoge at CUA, as a researcher for the US Census Bureau, as a consultant for parishes of the Archdiocese of Washington, as an intern for the Pennsylvania Department of Corrections, and as a counselor at an emergency youth shelter.

In 2008 I earned a Master of Education in Catholic School Leadership at Marymount University in Arlington, VA and have recieved administrator certification from the Maryland State Department of Education. In August 2008 I was appointed to serve as the principal of St. Camillus School & Early Childhood Learning Center in Silver Spring, MD. I previously taught Theology at DeMatha Catholic High School in Hyattsville, MD, middle school Social Studies and Religion at St. Peter’s Interparish School on Capitol Hill in DC, and seventh grade Social Studies at Walker Mill Middle School in the Prince George's Couny Public Schools.

We belong to St. Camillus Parish, a dynamic, multi-cultural, Catholic community in Silver Spring , Maryland , led by the Franciscan friars of Holy Name Province. In 2004 Melissa oversaw a parishwide survey as part of our triennial pastoral planning process, the report that she wrote on the study was incredibly helpful in the planning process - St. Camillus Pastoral Planning Survey Report.

Melissa is an alumna of Riverside High School in Ellwood City, PA and I am an alumnus of St. Lawrence Seminary in Mt. Calvary , Wisconsin. St. Lawrence is a ministry of the Capuchin Franciscan friars of the Province of St. Joseph. It is one of the few surviving high school seminaries in the United States . St. Lawrence’s unique mission is preparing young men for lives of ministry in the Church and society as lay men, priests, deacons, and religious through rigorous academics, community living, and spirituality make it one of the treasures of the Catholic Church. I previously served as the president of the St. Lawerence Seminary Alumni Association.

 

Articles about St. Lawrence: Education Week, Superior Catholic Herald (1), Superior Catholic Herald (2), Milwaukee Catholic Herald (1), Milwaukee Catholic Herald (2), Be Attitude Online, Milwaukee Journal-Sentinel, Small Business Times, Snips Magazine, Hilltopics, and an article from NCEA's Seminary Journal written by me. View a video about St. Lawrence.

 

Profiles of St. Lawrence Seminary alumni -- "Sons of Calvary" -- profile 1, profile 2, profile 3, profile 4, profile 5, profile 6, profile 7

 

Here is a paper that I wrote for my Master of Education program about the high school seminary model and an adaptation of that paper that was published in NCEA's Seminary Journal entitled "Not the Privelege of a Few? The Overlooked Potential of the High School Seminary Model."

 


baptized

April 12, 2008

We celebrated Joseph’s baptism with family and friends at St. Camillus Church in Silver Spring

 

See the PHOTOS

 

View the BOOKLET or the FULL TEXT

 

St. Anthony Room

 


 

Margaret's New England Adventure


July 27-30. 2007, we travelled to Fall River, Mass. for Melissa's cousin Richie's wedding. The trip included Margaret's first airplane flight as well as an unplanned (brief) visits to New York City, the New Jersey Turnpike and many other exciting locations.

 

See the photos

Cidade @ Porto Cidade

 


 

baptized

February 18th, 2006

We celebrated Margaret’s baptism with family and friends at St. Camillus Church in Silver Spring

 

See the PHOTOS

 

View the BOOKLET or the FULL TEXT

 

Music for Margaret’s Baptism

Come Holy Spirit

 


 

Wanna see some miracles …

On March 24, 2007, we found out that we have been blessed with our second child. This second “photo” of him was taken on June 29 , 2007 .
We expect his arrival to the outside world to be around November 27th .

Joseph Emanuel was born on Nov. 19, 2007
at Holy Cross Hospital, Silver Spring, MD.
He was born at 1:19 pm
and weighed 9 lbs. 10 oz..

New Baby's Sonogram

Before we left for Poland we found out that we had been blessed with our first child. This beautiful first “photo” of Margaret Rose was taken on May 25, 2005 . We expected her arrival to the outside world to be around December 20th

Margaret was born Christmas Eve, Dec 24, 2005
at Holy Cross Hospital in Silver Spring, MD.
She was born at 5:36 pm
and weighed 8 lbs. 9.5 oz.

Margaret's Sonogram

 


 

Christ of Maryland (C) Robert Lentz

Christ of Maryknoll © Robert Lentz

From May 3-8, 2005 we had the honor of being part of a delegation of Catholic educators that the Anti-Defamation League took to Poland for the March of Living, held at Auschwitz-Birkenau on Holocaust Remembrance Day (May 5, 2005) in memory of the 60th anniversary of the end of World War II in Europe. As part of the pilgrimage we visited Czestochova, Auschwitz and Birkenau, Krakow , the Warsaw Ghetto, and Majdanek extermination camp in Lublin , Poland . This was one of the most powerful experiences in our lives. As Christians, since touching the walls of the gas chamber at Majdanek, we are more committed to living the Gospel and ensuring that we see Christ in the poor, sick, and marginalized so that we can honestly carry on the Holocaust survivors’ mantra NEVER AGAIN!

Stories about the March of the Living: Deutsche WelleMail & GuardianABC

Because of my training and my work with Holocaust education, I was featured in the June, 2006 e-newsletter of the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum

View our photos: Czestochova, Auschwitz I, the March, Birkenau, Holocaust Memorial Service, Majdanek Death Camp, Misc.


 

May 27-29, 2005 , Melissa and I had the pleasure of being with my best friend from high school, Michael Radowicz, for his presbyteral ordination and first Masses. Michael is now a priest of the Diocese of Madison, Wisconsin. He is stationed as the parochial vicar at Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary in Sun Prairie, WI.

View the photos

Fr. Michael

 


 

On the Great Wall

From June 18 to July 12, 2005 , I had the opportunity to travel to 中国 ( China ) and 한국 ( Korea ) with a group of teachers thanks to the National Consortium for Teaching About Asia (NCTA) and the Freeman Foundation. This amazing trip allowed me to view, up close, the complexity of both China and Korea . It was mind boggling to go from the expansive boomtown of Shanghai with it’s hundreds of sparkling new skyscrapers to the rural Huang Shan region of Anhui Province where people live and farm more or less how they did hundreds of years ago (with the exception of the ubiquitous satellite dishes and internet bars). The beggars and “hello” who flock around tourists in the Beijing , the capital of the PEOPLE’s Republic of China, only serve as a reminder of the complexity of modernization and the inadequacy of labels or ideologies. Korea ’s western economy is a wonder.

Click to view my photos of: 中国 - Shanghai (1), Shanghai (2), Huang Shan (1), Huang Shan (2), Beijing

한국 - Seoul, Gyeongju, Others Images

Presentation on the economic and technological diversity in China

 


our heritage


 

During the Iraq War we worked hard to try and keep those around us focused on our responsibilities of care and concern for the Iraqi people … those responsibilities still exist now more than ever. Please click on the link below to read about our efforts to remember “Our Family in Iraq.”

Or click here to learn about the program Operation Iraqi Children – during Advent and Christmas 2004 the student council and community at St. Peter’s Interparish School collected enough supplies to make 21 kits which we sent to Iraqi schools via Operation Iraqi Children.

 


 San Damiano

Information about the Transitus of St. Francis

 

Prayers for Every Day

Including Settings of the Gospel Canticles


 

Feel free to email us with any insights that you have or just write me a note to say hi! Thanks for visiting!
                   -Toby, Melissa, Margaret, and Joseph  

 

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